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Coping with Anger Problems

Practical Tools for Coping with Anger in Wolverhampton

Part of coping with anger requires recognising that there are times when anger is appropriate and ‘normal’ as well as times when anger is simply an outburst that bears little relevance to the situation in which it arises.

Everybody gets angry at times in their lives but anger becomes a problem when it is ‘inappropriate’ or becomes destructive to other people or indeed to yourself.

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Anger that is pointed ‘outwards’ towards other people is the least damaging to your own psychological health, but can be pretty unpleasant when those people are on the receiving end of it.

Of course, you’ve only got to meet somebody who is not prepared to accept you ‘venting’ your anger on them to expose yourself to a whole range of associated problems, such as getting ‘punched’ or having a loved-one leave you.

Un-expressed, or bottled-up anger, is a lot less harmful to those in or around your life, but is pretty harmful to you, even more so if your bottled-up anger is also inappropriate! For example, you might get angry with yourself for not ‘being perfect’ and feel that making the smallest of errors means that you are justified in being angry with yourself.

In this particular case the justification for being angry is based on the distorted belief that you MUST be faultless or perfect.

Our focus in coping with anger problems is by helping people to modify their core limiting belief systems so that anger is not under-pinned by beliefs that make it justified.

Coping with Anger – Key Ideas

If you want to be better at coping with anger then there are a number of key points worth understanding:

  • Anger is a normal human reaction to a range of events and in many cases is reasonable and understandable
  • It is not possible, or sensible, to desire a life that is 100% free of any kind of anger
  • Anger is often built upon the idea that ‘life is not fair’ or that you have not been ‘treated with fairness’
  • Sometime people experience anger when they are trying to ‘control’ external events or other peoples feelings
  • Many people believe that ‘events’ make them angry, but this is not true – we can choose how to respond
  • Coping with anger is most effective when dealt with at the core, fundamental level (our beliefs)

Coping with Anger By Controlling Your Responses

The most effective and sustainable way of coping with anger is by learning how to manage your thinking processes more effectively. The fact is that we ‘create’ the angry ‘response’ through cognitive, or ‘thinking’, processes based on what we believe is happening, or about to happen ‘to us’.

So one of the key concepts for coping with anger is recognising that YOU are the architect of this feeling – its NOT simply happening to you, you creating it in the first place. This is GOOD news because you can also learn how to un-create it (or simply not create it in the first place).

Coping with Anger Using CBT

We do not know of any better method of coping with anger than by following our course of cognitive behavioural therapy which provides a more effective way of dealing with ‘mental health problems’ that is not based on the medico-psychiatric-model of ‘disorders’ and ‘illnesses’.

There is plenty of research indicating that ‘labelling’ people as ‘mentally ill’ not only causes additional problems, but also leads people to feeling ‘powerless’ when it comes to solving the problems associated with anger.

Read our post ‘psychiatric diagnosis, fact or fiction‘ to find out more.

Transform Your Thinking & Start Coping with Anger

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If you’re committed to coping with anger problems then we highly recommend following either our Advanced Cognitive Behavioural Therapy course with Paul, or the Changing Limiting Beliefs (CLB) Programme with Joan.

Both the CBT course and Changing Limiting Beliefs approach are highly successful & pragmatic psychological training programmes, run over 10 sessions, that will teach you everything you need to know to understand your problem, identify how unhelpful thinking and limiting beliefs might be reinforcing the issue, and then show you how to make any changes to your unhelpful thinking styles or maladaptive safety behaviours that you may have developed as part of your coping strategies.

Our CBT programme is an evidence-based, research supported approach used by mental health practitioners around the World.

FREE Initial Consultations for Coping with Anger

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We offer all prospective clients a FREE initial assessment to chat about coping with anger using the Thrive Programme.

During this 50 minute consultation we will discuss how Thrive works, why it is different and what’s involved.

At TranceForm we believe that therapy & coaching should be a collaboration between therapist and client so it’s very important to be able to meet PRIOR to agreeing any kind of help. Our policy is to help people make a fully balanced & considered decision about undertaking therapy with us, including both the financial and personal implications.

For most mental health issues we recommend following our 10 session Tranceformental CBT Programme (an advanced version of conventional Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) to overcome a wide range of mental health and behavioural problems.

CBT is a proven form of therapy for developing a fundamental level of understanding into the dynamics of your problem, but also for learning new coping skills and strategies for sustainable change over your life.

The full course costs £695 which you can pay for on our fees page - don't forget we offer a FREE initial consultation to all prospective clients.

Tranceformental CBT is available On-line as well as in the clinic.

Visit Online Counselling for more details.

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Tranceformental CBT

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I specialise in the following therapies:

Changing Limiting Beliefs

Brain Working Recursive Therapy

(Conscious) Analytical Therapy

Call Joan on: 07434 776504

e-mail: joan@tranceformpsychology.com

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