All About Erotophobia, the Fear of Sex, & How To Overcome it with CBT, Therapy & Counselling in Wolverhampton & West Midlands
What is Erotophobia?
Erotophobia is the Fear of the Erotic or the Fear of Sex.
This may also be the fear of sexual intercourse which is known as Genophobia, but each person may experience distinctive elements with their own phobic triggers.
It is also possible that people suffering from this issue may have a fear of intimacy or possibly sexual performance anxiety.
All phobias, regardless of what the feared object or circumstances are, cause Anxiety and Stress for the sufferer, and Erotophobia is no different in this sense.
Whilst the feared object or situation may seem, to other people, to be ridiculous or silly, the person who suffers from Erotophobia knows only too well that the Anxiety that they experience is real enough.
We completely understand this and will treat you and your Erotophobia seriously.
It is now widely accepted that our minds are more than capable of producing a real biological reaction to any given situation and so as long as the Erotophobia sufferer “believes” that the object or situation they fear represents danger to them, then they will experience real fear.
The majority of people who do suffer with Erotophobia recognise that their fear is “irrational” but continue to experience it regardless of this knowledge.
Symptoms of Erotophobia
The symptoms of Erotophobia are very similar to other specific phobias and will often include:
- Anger problems
- Generalised Anxiety
- Social anxiety
- Control issues
- Feelings of depression
- Insomnia & sleeping problems
- Low Self-Esteem
- Low Self-Confidence
- Panic attacks
- Overthinking things
- Avoidance and safety behaviours
Erotophobia Symptoms are generally automatic and uncontrollable and can seem to take over a person’s thoughts which frequently leads to extreme measures being taken to avoid the feared object or situation, what are known as “Safety” or “Avoidance” behaviours.
Unfortunately, for the sufferer, these safety behaviours have a paradoxical effect and actually reinforce the phobia rather than solve it!
Erotophobia may be the result of negative emotional experiences that can be either directly or indirectly linked to the object or situational fear.
Over time, the symptoms often become “normalised” and “accepted” as a limiting belief in that person’s life – “I’ve learnt to live with it.”
In just as many cases, Erotophobia may have become worse over time as more and more sophisticated safety behaviours and routines are developed.
The good news is that the vast majority of people who suffer from Erotophobia will find a course of Psychotherapy helps enormously.
Almost every phobia responds well to psychological interventions.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Erotophobia
If you’re committed to overcoming your Erotophobia problems then we highly recommend following our Advanced Tranceformental CBT programme with Paul which is available as an Online Therapy as well as a self-directed programme.
The Tranceformental programme is a highly successful & pragmatic psychotherapy course, run over 10 sessions, that will teach you everything you need to know to understand your problem, identify how unhelpful thinking and limiting beliefs might be reinforcing the issue, and then show you how to make any changes to your unhelpful thinking styles or maladaptive safety behaviours that you may have developed as part of your coping strategies.
Our Tranceformental CBT programme is an empirically supported supported approach used by mental health practitioners around the World.
Alternative Therapy Options for Erotophobia
Although our preferred form of psychotherapy for Erotophobia is Tranceformental CBT we also offer alternative psychotherapies for those who might prefer a different approach.
- Psychodynamic therapy which focuses more on emotional problems and relies on the Therapeutic Relationship to bring about change. Available with Paul.
- General Counselling which is less structured but still provides a safe and non-judgmental environment to discuss issues which is therapeutic in its own right.
- Hypnotherapy is an alternative form of therapy that can be applied to a very wide range of problems and is available with Joan.
Free Initial Consultations for Erotophobia
We offer all prospective clients an initial consultation to discuss your Erotophobia prior to commencing any treatment plans.
The consultation is free and lasts around 50 minutes.
During this consultation we will discuss the various options that are available to you and make a considered recommendation based on your individual personal circumstances.
Initial consultations are also available as part of our online therapy service.
At TranceForm Psychology we recognise the importance of the therapeutic relationship in helping people to bring about effective change, so its important to be able to ‘meet’ to discuss our change programmes BEFORE proceeding.
Our policy is to help people make a fully balanced & considered decision about undertaking work with us, including both the financial and personal implications.
Overcome Your Problems with our CBT Course
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is clinically proven to be effective across a range of different mental health problems.
Using our online learning platform, it is available with 2, 5 or 10 sessions of clinical support either face-to-face in the Wombourne offices, or using Zoom video facilities.
It can also be taken as a self help CBT course that will teach you the fundamental tools and techniques used throughout the mental health profession.
Areas We Serve
We offer mental health services, therapy & counselling for people living in:
- West Midlands
- South Staffordshire
For those living further afield, we also offer Online Therapy Services using Zoom.