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Premature Ejaculation Counselling Wolverhampton

Psychological Therapy for Premature Ejaculation and PE Problems

Premature Ejaculation, or PE as it is known medically, is when a man “cums too quickly” either during sexual intercourse or sometimes before penetration has even occurred.

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Along with Erectile Dysfunction, it is considered one of the most common sexual problems a man is likely to suffer.

In general terms, premature ejaculation tends to affect the younger, less experienced man, although data shows that about a third of ALL men are likely to experience this problem at some point in their lives.

What exactly “premature” means is really down to personal interpretation, but to be considered to be a problem, we are probably talking about “cumming” within one or two minutes or even seconds.

What can cause Premature Ejaculation?

As premature ejaculation tends to affect the younger man it is almost certainly the case that “experience” plays a major role in this problem.

This is not difficult to understand when one considers the amount of anticipation and anxiety that is built during early sexual encounters when the focus is all on “control” and the avoidance of “embarrassment”.

This desire to be in control and to not cum too quickly undoubtedly falls victim to what is known as “Coue’s Law of Reversed Effort” – this is an effect that occurs when we have a specific desire in our conscious mind (in this case to be able to “last” a long time) but our imagination tends to focus on all the negative or bad things that could happen – what Emile Coue proposed is that whenever this conflict occurs between the conscious thoughts and the imagination, that the imagination is much more “powerful” and will always “beat” the conscious thoughts.

It is unlikely that PE has a physiological or biological cause, although of course this is NOT impossible.

Whatever the cause, this is a problem that once experienced, can escalate into a full-blown Psychological problem that tends to grow worse the more one worries about it.

Can Premature Ejaculation be helped?

The majority of men will find that the more they have sexual experiences, the smaller this problem becomes as they develop a greater sense of control over climaxing. This of course is “experience”.

Therapy for Premature Ejaculation

In many cases men suffering from premature ejaculation will have been along to see their GP who may have prescribed some sort of drug, or perhaps suggested some form of Counselling.

Whilst there are undoubtedly many cases where a pharmaceutical solution can work, a permanent and healthier option is to sort out the problem through Psychological interventions.

Premature ejaculation, and other problems that have a very significant cognitive component (unhelpful thinking), can be very effectively resolved through following a course of our very popular THRIVE Programme which helps you to change any limiting beliefs that may be supporting your PE issues.

We also offer Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help with the amount of worry and stress that you develop about your Premature Ejaculation thus alleviating the problem. CBT is recognised as being very effective at modifying our behaviour through changing our thinking.

Learn How to Thrive and Beat Premature Ejaculation

If you’re committed to overcoming your PE problems then you really can’t do much better than by learning how to Thrive.

The Thrive Programme is a psychological training programme that teaches you everything you need to know to make the necessary changes to your limiting beliefs so that you can really Thrive in life.

Thrive Programme Video

Click below to watch this short video about the Thrive Programme.

FREE Initial Consultations for Premature Ejaculation

FREE Initial Consultations for Premature Ejaculation Wolverhampton

We offer all prospective clients a FREE initial assessment to chat about your premature ejaculation problems. During this 50 minute consultation we will discuss the various options that are available to you and make a considered recommendation based on your individual personal circumstances.

At TranceForm we believe that therapy & coaching should be a collaboration between therapist and client so it’s very important to be able to meet PRIOR to agreeing any kind of help. Our policy is to help people make a fully balanced & considered decision about undertaking therapy with us, including both the financial and personal implications.

Page Author - Paul Lee BSc. Honours

Page Author - Paul Lee BSc. Honours

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This page was authored by Paul Lee Bachelor of Science (honours) Psychology and Social Psychology. All content is cross-edited by Dr. Justina Somal PhD (British Psychological Society) for accuracy and operational validity.

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