CBT Therapy for Sexual Problems
Understanding Sexual Problems
Sexual Problems are much more common than people think and can crop up at any time, and at any age.
Nearly all of us, at some point in our lives are likely to experience sexual problems of one sort or another.
They can be very difficult to talk to somebody about, so we would like to assure you that we will deal with you with respect and understanding.
As our sex life is such a “personal” and integral part of our lives we can often feel too embarrassed to seek help, instead suffering needlessly and letting it affect our self esteem and also those closest to us.
Sexual problems are experienced in fairly equal proportions by all genders, although men tend to be less likely to consult for professional help.
Due to the very personal nature of our sex lives, problems that are not dealt with can lead to very powerful feelings of inadequacy, shame and low self esteem.
These feelings NEVER make the problem better or more manageable; in fact, they act in such a way as to further increase the problem creating a vicious circle.
AVAILABLE FACE-TO-FACE OR ONLINE
We're Ready to Help You
We offer all prospective clients an hour long, informal and confidential chat to discuss your sex-related concerns for just £30.
There's no pressure to undertake any therapy going forward, no judgement from us and we're very friendly and easy to talk to!
♦ Ongoing sessions:
Typically weekly or fortnightly, tailored to your needs.
♦ Location:
Comfortable private setting near Wolverhampton / Wombourne, with free parking.
Secure online therapy available with Paul across the UK.
♦ Fees:
Ongoing sessions: £90/hr
Frequently Asked Questions About Therapy
How many sessions will I need?
This varies for each person. Some people feel clearer within a few sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support.
Is therapy confidential?
Yes. Everything discussed is treated with professional confidentiality.
Do I need a GP referral?
No referral is required. You can contact Tranceform Psychology directly.
Can sexual problems really improve?
Yes. Many people who once felt trapped by sexual issues now live calmer, freer and more confident lives.
Sexual Problems We Can Help
PE
Premature ejaculation is a problem often associated with younger, more inexperienced men.
Performance Anxiety
Sexual performance anxiety is the constant worry about your ability to satisfy your sexual partner.
Vaginismus
Vaginismus is the involuntary muscle response that prohibits penetration making sex painful.
ED
Erectile Dysfunction is the inability to achieve or maintain an erection and can be physical or psychological.
Anorgasmia
Anorgasmia is the inability to achieve an orgasm, usually in females, which can be the result of various different causes.
Genophobia - Fear of Sex
Genophobia is the fear of sexual intercourse. It is often the result of negative experiences as well as social conditioning.
Psychological therapy with paul
CBT Therapy Options for Sexual Problems
ABOUT PAUL
Meet Paul Lee MSc
Hello, I'm Paul and I've been working with people as a psychologist, psychotherapist and coach since 2009. I have expert knowledge of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and adopt a non-medicalised philosophy when helping people overcome mental health challenges. This means that I will frame your current difficulties as being the result of what has happened to you rather than what is wrong with you.
What to Expect from Therapy
Therapy isn't something that is simply done to you. Although your therapist can provide understanding, guidance and practical psychological strategies, meaningful change usually develops through what you discover, practice and begin to do differently in your everyday life.
At Tranceform, we see therapy as a collaborative process. We'll work together to understand the patterns of thinking, feeling and behaviour that may be keeping the problem going, while helping you explore different ways of responding. Sometimes this involves questioning long-held assumptions, reducing avoidance or experimenting with behaviours that initially feel unfamiliar.
The aim isn't to make you dependent upon therapy or to promise a quick fix. It's to help you develop greater understanding, confidence and agency so that, over time, you become better equipped to manage difficulties for yourself.
Therapy provides the guidance. You provide the practice. We create the change together.
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